“This is so amazing.

“But yeah, I felt this rage.

And Erica articulated it better than I could have ever hoped.

So there you go.

Thank you, Erica.”

It made me sick.

“So, my dear ignorant, judgmental, aholes, this one is for you.”

[It’s] been 15 months!

Because it’s really about you isn’t it?

You’re worried about your own offended sensibilities rooted in old Victorian traditions.

Stop pretending you are actually concerned about their healing,'” she wrote in part.

“I have waited 47 years to find true love.

PEOPLE broke the news of Oswalt and Salenger’s engagement Thursday.

The two went public with their relationship last month at theLos Angeles premiere ofBaby Driver.

Read Erica Roman’s entire essayhere.