Before we go on, aSPOILER ALERT!Do not read on until youve watched Sundays episode ofOutlander.
I lost a particular friend at Culloden, he says to Jamie, mournfully.
He was the reason I joined the army.

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Glassy-eyed, Grey goes on to explain how his brother dragged him away from the corpse of his friend.
He was embarrassed you see, said I would overcome it.
And thats when he touches Jamie.

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Speaking to EW in Los Angeles recently, Heughan discussed his characters reaction to his British captor.
Theres nothing else really to do there, Heughan said.
They find theres an intellectual appreciation of each others company, and they form this friendship.
But then Grey makes his emotions or his intentions known.
Jamie feels that not only is it dangerous for him, but sad.
He feels just so many different things for John Grey in that moment.
And how does Grey feel in return?
Lord Grey is immediately reminded of the encounter he had with him as a boy many years before.
He is both fascinated by and fearful of Jamie.
What changes Greys opinion of Jamie?
What moment?Theres no one specific moment that Lord Grey changes his opinion of Jamie.
Throughout the episode he is gathering information and trying to strategize a way of dealing with Jamie.
Jamie has a unique ability to reveal and expose Lord Greys vulnerabilities.
What is your understanding of how gay men were treated in 18th-century London?
This is relatable to anyone, gay or straight.
To their credit, they treat his sexuality as incidental to his character and the plot.
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Did you catch what Berrys mother-in-law said to him about playing Lord John Grey?