The actor,8-year-old Jackson Millarker, plays Lilys friend Tom.

The show doesnt talk about Toms background explicitly all were told is that he used to be called Tina.

And thats mostly because its no big deal to Lily: He is simply her friend Tom.

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Then they hear Lily call Tom a weirdo.

In retaliation, Lily called him a weirdo.

While theyre on the topic of the mural though, Lily admits that she hates it.

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And so, the family paints over it, which Cam cant get through without crying.

But in a sweet moment, they see that Lily memorialized it with a framed picture in her room.

Turns out shecanbe sensitive when she wants to.

Phil has nothing but Tic Tacs to eat for 18 hours.

Like I said: dark.)

Back at home, Phil finds out that no one in his family even realized he was gone.

Theyre too absorbed in their own worlds, as usual.

For the rest of the episode, he has serious PTSD symptoms.

Alex is home from college with mono (for the whole semester!

Meanwhile, in the Pritchett-Delgado household, Joe has just seenThe Jungle Bookand wants to live outside like Mowgli.

We see him unsuccessfully have a go at sneak outside in his underwear toting a suitcase.

Also, we learn that Joe has a habit of peeing on the floor of the house.

Jay parades his black friend Miles around the front lawn in hopes that the new neighbors will notice.

Its not my first time moving into a white neighborhood, he says.

I did my residency in New Hampshire.