I knew she was from Edmonds, Washington; I was from Lake Stevens.
It was like, pick one of my four T-shirts.
What does he want?
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I dont understand this.'
I mean, he didn’t know that I knew, but there were too many things.
It was my birthday; there were too many things lining up.
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We had talked about it for awhile.
No I never proposed to him, but I thought it was really sweet.
[Laughs] She’s a feeder.
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She’s a feeder for a reason."
I was very attracted to him.
He’s a very handsome, strapping guy.
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He’s got that hometown boy quality that I love."
And its like the floor of emotion because I was so worried.
And hes holding my hand and just sobbing.
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I was so scared that he would be turned off by the whole thing.
But that was amazing seeing his face of like cant believe.
Now for the kid, that has changed my life.
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Im like, Okay thats gotta be the No.
Id like to give him some normalcy.
Its gonna be weird for him to have famous parents.
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Its gonna be a burden for him sometimes, you know?
But its all relative.
At one point I said, Baby, do I talk too much?
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and he said, Honey, you are just like my little iPod."
We likeGame of Thrones.
We like getting into a series.
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We watchedBreaking Bad.We also like to watch trashy reality shows.
Play with our son.
Do acting games with our friends.
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Our families, and when our friends come over, we do go-rounds.
Its like when the lion comes home, thats how I feel.
He is truly the lion."
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… She’s got more experience with this.
We talk a lot about characters, we talk a lot about choices.
Thats a big thing.
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Because theres really, as an actor, a thousand ways to say one line.
Say it any way you want, each way’s a choice.
And what do you mean when you say that?
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What it means to give up everything for this, give myself to it.
Ill ask him about line delivery.
And it taps into something… Its hugely satisfying for me.
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Probably time away from the family.
I’m less present in the life of my wife and child.
I’m gonna be doing three movies in a row starting in about a month.
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I’ll be basically on location until June of next year.
It’s not even June of this year yet.
So that will be tough.
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And now that Anna’s show is picked up, that means she’s going to be in L.A.
So that’s the hardest part, making time for family."
… And you dont want to waste it fighting, and you know, like, all the minutiae.
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Its a high price to pay, you know, but it is a benefit.
A silver lining."
We grapple a lot with the idea of being a public couple.
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That hurts my feelings!
It made me feel incredibly insecure.
And I love that.
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I hope that we can survive the distance.
I know that he loves me."
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